Distance Dating Tips by F4-Programmer_(LOVE)

March 04, 2011 iToonTV Network 0

Love does not know the place and time, anywhere, that feeling can blossom. Therefore, many different pairs popping separated distance, rivers, mountains, seas, until the continent. Pairs of this kind does have its own challenges. If trust and love is not too strong, the relationship could easily fall apart. Before that happens, read these tips first:
1. Communication
These days everything is completely easy. Although different continents many communication alternatives that can be taken. Besides the phone, with the sophistication of Internet chat via the chat can be done. Want to send photos, videos until everything was possible. Moreover, the cost is also much cheaper. No more excuse for not communicating. There are doubts, suspicions, or other feelings, express directly on her lover. Do not bury and second-guessing himself.
About the frequency, adjust their respective activities. Do not disturb and make him upset. But on the sidelines of an electronic communication, there's nothing wrong occasionally punctuated by regular mail in the mail. In addition to more personal, in the regular mail you can put a fragrance that you use frequently, giving rise to feelings of nostalgia in her. If he missed the food home there's nothing wrong occasionally send her favorite cuisine. But before that first check with the shipping company or post office about procedures for food delivery.
2. Create surprises
Surprise is often a refresher a relationship. For a long distance can take advantage of shipping services. Occasionally send flowers can be a romantic longing bidder. If indeed there is enough time for a holiday surprise him by coming to his town. But remember too busy, not too much demanding his time. If possible, find out the schedule he was on that day. You also do not need to visit for long, the important sense of longing has been remedied.
3. Set rules
To avoid misunderstanding and things are not desirable you should set some ground rules. For example, how long must meet, whether every day have to call, is there a special day where you have to meet, and various other rules.
4. Anticipate any possible
His name is a long distance relationship, certainly a lot of factors blocking barrier. Although already made your plans should always be prepared for the worst. For example, when it was an appointment, your lover is meeting all of a sudden. Or could you just can not go see him because a friend needs to confide in friends after breaking up from a boyfriend.
5. Trust and Patience
When it is committed to long-distance relationship, trust is very important to the couple. If you can not trust the partner you'd better think twice before undergoing distance relationship. You can be tired of his own tortured because of suspicion and can not always watch her lover. If there are feelings of suspicion or anxiety, expressed directly to him. Do not keep to themselves and develop into a problem.
Emotional state is difficult to control. Sometimes a little upset could be a problem. Especially for long-distance partner, patience is an important aspect. As reported by "lovearticle" on Wednesday (09/21/2005), emotion couples in long-distance relationships more explosive. Though the couple should really appreciate the times when they are on the phone or meet.
Therefore, if I have problems should try to be patient and do not immediately explode. Remember, meetings and communication is quite difficult should be filled with fun things to be more intimate relationship. Always end the conversation with the sweet words.
6. Weigh the pros and cons
Not everyone can live a long distance relationship with both. Need a lot of patience and effort to get through it all. Consider the positive and negative relationships was undertaken. Are you and your partner happy? Are you more likely to fight than making out? What is the relationship changed for the worse after a loved one moved to another city? And various other things. If having weighed it turns out bad things is superior, it could not hurt you to think twice to continue the relationship long distance. Do not hurry to end the relationship, talk with your loved baikbaik first. Give the right reasons and arguments. In the end, it would be nice if you and your partner can find a way out. Who knows the change will actually make more intimate. But if not bitter truth must be taken. Anyway who would constantly sad and suffering for love.
7. Prediction of future
Relationships that have a destination, make sure you and your partner is more the spirit of living it. If it is time there was no harm in reinforcing commitment. At least do not be avoided when talking about it. A particularly long-distance relationships need to 'lure' that makes you and your partner remain strong. At least there is something expected and intended.

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